Husband and I divorced, but he wants to reconcile, please help?

Dear girl...lets look at the logic of your situation.You divorced because you were fighting every day for last 2 years. Since the divorce you have been seeing each other on weekends and still argue even then .You know in your heart the relationship will never work..but you miss him when he is not around?Now under those circumstances it is not surprising! Firstly,you cannot "end' it because it is already ended! it is just that neither of you will let go.And the reason you won`t let go is because of..fear.of the future. Although you were desperately unhappy with him,you were used to him,used to the life you had together,and venturing into the World without that seems scary.It is only scary for a little while. but here`s the thing,you are not giving yourself a chance to adjust to a new life .and whilever you waver this way you will stay desperately confused and miserable.You really need to make a plan. Start to bring other things into your life,go do something different ..take up a new absorbing hobby..widen social contacts. You simply must stop the every weekend meetings..they are absolutely counter productive. If you can`t find the courage to totally break away then at least give yourself a break of say a month or two and see how it is then...Always remember the bad times when you think of your life with this man..don`t put rose coloured glasses on! This will help give you the courage to be your own girl,and restart your life...Also remember the effect of this dysfunctional relationship on your son. iI you continue he will grow up repeating the behaviour he sees between you two. If you can`t do it for yourself do it for him. Look forwards not backwards. Do persevere and in a few months you will be so happy and relieved you did There is a big World out there..full of possibilities if you let it in...I do wish you good luck